A dear friend of ours has a beautiful garden she’s planted. There are multiple vegetables, as well as herbs and spices. As we sat one day, drinking tea she had grown in her garden, she began sharing her heart with us about this garden, She walked us around and showed us the various vegetables, peppers, beans she had planted. She showed us the various irrigation measures she (and her father) had put in. She also shared with us how she thought squirrels had gotten into the garden, and showed us what she’d done to mitigate that risk. One thing was vary apparent through this conversation – this garden, with all of it’s weeds, with all of it’s problems, with all of its burdens – was a labor of love. Gardening is certainly no easy task, and at times is burdensome. Since visiting her garden, this message has been developing in my head.
There were three times, at least, in the life of the Savior where He was under a tremendous burden. In the wilderness, He won the victory over Satan. On the cross, He won the victory over sin. In the Garden of Gethsemane, He won the battle over self-will.
Every time Jesus was faced with heavy burdens, He taught us what to do. However, this garden experience was unlike the prayers He prayed while being tempted in the wilderness, and even from the Cross. In the wilderness, there is a devil you can see. At Calvary there is a cross you can see. However, in the garden, there is nothing visible. What a lesson for us all! Sometimes the enemy we face is evident. There are times we are fortunate enough to see trouble coming. Often, our burdens take us with no warning at all. Personally, I have no problem dealing with the burdens I can see coming, but it’s quite another when I can’t see it, or pin point it, or even explain it. Burdens are just as real when we can’t touch them or even put a name to them – like Cancer. Look at Matthew 26:36-46 with me for a few minutes:
“36 Then cometh Jesus with them unto a place called Gethsemane, and saith unto the disciples, Sit ye here, while I go and pray yonder. 37 And he took with him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and began to be sorrowful and very heavy. 38 Then saith he unto them, My soul is exceeding sorrowful, even unto death: tarry ye here, and watch with me. 39 And he went a little farther, and fell on his face, and prayed, saying, O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt. 40 And he cometh unto the disciples, and findeth them asleep, and saith unto Peter, What, could ye not watch with me one hour? 41 Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak. 42 He went away again the second time, and prayed, saying, O my Father, if this cup may not pass away from me, except I drink it, thy will be done. 43 And he came and found them asleep again: for their eyes were heavy. 44 And he left them, and went away again, and prayed the third time, saying the same words. 45 Then cometh he to his disciples, and saith unto them, Sleep on now, and take your rest: behold, the hour is at hand, and the Son of man is betrayed into the hands of sinners. 46 Rise, let us be going: behold, he is at hand that doth betray me.”
Let me show you a few things I see
THE GRINDING IN THE GARDEN
The word Gethsemane means “oil press” or “olive press.” In this garden, the olives were placed onto the millstones to be crushed by the weight of the press to extract their oil. There were four different pressings of the olives.
- The first produced the oil used for holy things associated with the Temple;
- The second provided the oil for home cooking.
- The third pressing yielded oil for medicine.
- The last was used for soap, beauty aids or household applications.
In short, everything in the olive had to come out under the load of the press. Olive oil may only cost us a few dollars but it cost an olive everything that was in it!
We see the Burden upon the Savior in His sweating.
Luke records the account and says, ..his sweat was as it were great drops of blood falling to the ground. (Luke 22:44). What a strange place to bleed. In a beautiful garden the crimson color is no longer seen on the flowers but it now covers the ground. How awful that sight must have been to those who were with Jesus! It teaches us that sometimes we can have an ugly problem in a beautiful place. You go through life and just achieve what you always worked for only to face illness, pain or loss. The pressure can make us sweat but none of us have ever sweated like Jesus did in the garden.
We also see the burden in the separation by the Savior.
The disciples tarry at the appointed place but Jesus, “went a little farther, and fell on his face.” (vs. 39). He kept on going when those He loved had stopped. Burdens will drive us to a place where we feel others are not able to go. There is a loneliness involved with real stress. There are some things that we must go through alone.
The burden is visible in the sleeping disciples.
Jesus leaves them and returns on three occasions only to find them asleep each time (vs. 40, 43, 45). What makes us keep going back to things that don’t work when we are under pressure? The results are the same, yet we still think our friends or family can help us somehow. We know only God knows and can give us relief.
Finally, you see the Burden in the seeking of the Savior.
The text teaches us that Jesus, “prayed the third time, saying the same Words” (vs. 44). You know it is real when you keep praying the same thing. The need is so great that all you can do is speak the same words over and over again. Nothing else matters and you must get an answer from God! This is the Grinding in the Garden. Now notice:
GRACE IN THE GARDEN
When Jesus came the third time and found the disciples still sleeping, He speaks to them and says, “Sleep on now”(vs. 45).
Something happened on His third trip in prayer. Nothing had changed concerning the will of the Father. The burden was still there but it just didn’t bother Him anymore.
When I read those words spoken by Jesus, I could not help but think of all the things that had bothered me so much throughout my life and ministry. It was a sudden reminder that there are some things we all just need to “put to bed”.
- Things are not going to change. We just need to let it sleep and find peace in Him.
- When someone that you have depended on, has let you down, but don’t let bitterness grow in your heart.
- When disease comes and your spouse has lost their memory of your life together, don’t argue with the Lord about it.
- As you care for that child who is disabled, please don’t get angry with God.
- If a church has voted you out of your position , or broken your heart, don’t try to get even.
The best thing we can ever do with anything putting a burden or distress on us is to “put it to bed!”
How long will your burden continue? I am not able to answer that completely. I know Jesus prayed three times but He was the Christ! Paul prayed three times before he found His grace sufficient to overcome the thorn in his flesh – but he was an apostle. If they both prayed three times then we may have to intercede 300 times. However, grace will come and it will be enough for you to “sleep on” and get rest over it.
There is one other thing that I must mention about this experience. Notice:
THE GARDENER IN THE GARDEN
Jesus goes from this garden and faces the cross. From Calvary, He is taken to a tomb. On the third day, Mary has come to see her Lord. When she looks in she sees two angels at the head and foot of where Jesus had laid. She turns aside and hears another voice of comfort. The voice of Jesus! The Bible then records that “She, supposing him to be the gardener”(John 20:15).
When He spoke her name, she knew it was Jesus! She thought Jesus was the Gardener because He was! He had cultivated the Garden of Gethsemane to give us hope in the hour of burdens in our life.
You may be going through one of the most difficult times ever. All hope is not gone. Others may not be able to lift the load. I just want to remind you during your time of heavy burdens, “This is only a test.” Jesus knows and understands so just keep saying the same words. He has not forsaken you or lost sight of you. The Gardener of Grace will give you all you need to get to the point where you can “put it to bed.”